Effortless-Effective-Efficient (EEE) life and health. Part 3

accompanying, including, feeding

If you vibe with what I share here, you will definitely enjoy (C)Osmosis x HEALTH on the 23-24-25 July, online, a 72-hour experience, including the Dream Field 😏

…and now… let’s continue our exploration of EEE 👇

In this Part 3 (linking Part 1 & Part 2 here) I talk about the movement of accompaniment, inclusion and feeding.

accompany, include, feed — how we actually do it

So. We’ve established it.

Health is NOT a state, not some kind of illusive homeostasis.

It’s a FORCE — ancient, prehistoric, tidal, chthonic, monstrous, awake, and present right now. And EEE is not a nice feeling. It’s a LOCATION. A sensorium.

Lovely. Beautiful. And I can feel the very practical question forming in you, because you’re a very practical person:

Okay Katja. But HOW?

How do I build right relationship with a living beast the size of the shoreless ocean? What do I actually DO?

And the answer is most simple and sometimes most frustrating 😏

You don’t DO anything. You’re not the doer of Health. Health DOES YOU!

But for this to actually occur, first we must build proper palpable relationship with this force. And the Not-Doing within the coordinates of Right Relations is possibly the hardest, most skilled and advanced, most devotional gesture there is. It’s artistry and wizardry.

And we DO it (hehe) through these three movements:

Accompany. Include. Feed.

(in no particular order because they inter-dance and inter-breathe)

accompany

To accompany is to move WITH. To walk together hand-in-hand.

You don’t lead the Tide. You don’t steer it.

You don’t reach in and fix the Beast according to your busy agenda or your timeline.

You drop beneath your own plan. You get quiet. You wait to be moved from inside by the larger movement — and then, only then, you go, and only as far as it carries you, and the moment it stops, you stop too.

We practice participatory surrender and right relationship.

And the alternative is… usurpation.

To usurp is to reach in and drive something that was already being moved by a power vastly larger than you (as if you had permission which we don’t). It’s the FIXING REFLEX from Part 2.

And here’s the thing nobody tells the eager artist:

whoever tries to drive the Primordial Tide gets driven by it

Grab a living power and it grabs back.

Reach in to shadow-work the Dark Waters of your Soul to “bring it to the Light” and it pulls you under and drowns you.

This is why so many of the most gifted practitioners you know are also the most exhausted, the most symptomatic, the most burnt to the ground. It isn’t a coincidence and it isn’t a self-care thing. It’s the field pushing back against being usurped.

To accompany is to stop steering. To become an intermediary. To be led.

Terrifying, for a competent person, right? I know, friends. I know.

include

The whole fixing paradigm runs on exclusion.

All that’s unresolved (traumas, relational tensions, lesions, distortions) must be resolved, released and cleaned.

Keep the Small Self clean and ascending and ALONE — and then wonder why you’re so unspeakably tired all the time.

To include is to open the circle-boundary back up.

In any animist cosmology you were never a sealed unit.

You are a person-in-relation, woven into a living field, fed by it and cohered by it. Sever the relations and one nervous system is left holding what actual Life-substance was meant to hold.

Inclusion isn’t ultimate bypass-y being okay with everything.

Including something or someone is NOT the same as approving of them.

And being led is NOT silently taking whatever happens to be crushing you.

Okay?? Okay.

Because the Tide moves with and toward LIFE.

Always. Thats just the nature of things.

So when I say be moved, I mean be moved by the movement of Life that is already moving (this is very meta).

De-pathologizing ≠ Romanticizing and bypassing.

feed

We start every class, every session, every (C)Osmosis with FEEDING.

Feeding the Field.

Feeding the animate forces and powers at play.

Feeding the Beast. Right into its hungry drooling mouth….

Feed it your attention, your worries, your excitements, your breath, your words, your thought-forms, your chronic (chthonic!) conditions, your devotion, feed it the truth of your listening — and the very same presence that was a monster turns its face and you suddenly see — it’s a threshold guardian.

Feeding is the oldest gesture there is.

And it’s reciprocal.

You feed the land, the dead, the kin, the beast… and they begin to feed you back.

The field you nourish is the field that coheres you.

This is Life-Making.

This is (C)Osmosis: an eco-corpo-imaginal movement of feeding Life until Life feeds you back into rightness, in ways you will never be able to explain to anyone and will, eventually, stop wanting to.

and none of this can be done alone

Well, you know this… but it doesn’t matter matter how skilled you are at this point.

A properly woven group field is much.. much…. MUCH stronger and bigger than any personal field could ever be. Therefore it can metabolize larger things faster and with more EEE.

For 72 hours we weave the In-Between — your dreaming included, the Dreamscape working on you while you sleep (with consent and right relationship obviously).

Three live sessions and one long wave — until Health, the actual alive tidal monstrous harmonising FORCE, can come and meet you and cohere you from a layer you have never once reached on your own.

Accompanying. Including. Feeding.

(C)Osmosis x HEALTH — 23, 24, 25 July · 1–4pm CET · online, Dream Field included · €123

Your Fairy Godmother, Katja